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conductthe careful.party code of conduct

Be kind to each other. Think carefully about the words you use. Think carefully about what content you post and promote. Do not violate the privacy or consent of others. Do not use generative AI in your interactions or your projects hosted here.

careful.party was begun as an enclave against capitalist depredation, out of an awareness of capitalism's tendency to absorb functional projects and organizations to address its own dysfunction. It was begun from an awareness of the way that well-intentioned movements, like FLOSS, often end up extending the lifespan of capitalism by providing it with unpaid, or underpaid, labor. Without a clear distinction drawn, and defensive measures erected, between the People and the Capitalists, we cannot hope to assist the former and resist the latter.

The goal of careful.party is to provide a place for people, particularly (but not only) technologists, to begin feeding their efforts into an anti-capitalist alternative, walled off from the capitalists first by the privacy of the tilde and second by the legal tactic of licenses and agreements.

As a liberatory project, we seek to be inclusive to the largest number of community members, with the most varied and diverse backgrounds possible. We are committed to providing a friendly, safe, and welcoming environment for all, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, ability, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, and religion (or lack thereof).

This code of conduct outlines our expectations for all those who participate in our community, as well as the consequences for unacceptable behavior.

We invite all those who participate in careful.party to help create safe and positive experiences for everyone.

careful.party hopes to aid in mutual support and trust-building between members. It hopes to be both a first home for projects aimed at aiding anti-capitalist efforts, and a safe, non-judgemental, and fun place for anti-capitalists to learn and develop their abilities.

At a time where shoddy work is rewarded with increased profit, where generative AI has mechanized the production of propaganda, dubious claims, and unfit (but profitable) products, where carelessness has become the rule rather than the exception, careful.party provides a place where people prioritizing care and understanding over "velocity" and exploitation can collaborate and cheer each other on. It hopes to be a bulwark against the widespread rot typified by, but neither introduced through nor exclusive to, generative AI.

careful.party strives to be an inclusive community where people of all backgrounds and all technological experience levels can come together for peer education, to make conversation, to enjoy each other's creations, and to generally engage with each other in a caring, careful way.

In the event you are removed from the server for any reason, the files in your home directory (including the directories pointed to by the symlinks in ~/inner and ~/public) will be tarballed and made available to you for download for a period of seven (7) days, provided we have no cause to believe they contain illegal content.

Unacceptable behaviors include: intimidating, harassing, abusive, discriminatory, derogatory, or demeaning speech or actions by any careful.party member online, at any related events, or in one-on-one carried out in the coduct of careful.party related projects. Community event venues, physical or digital, may be shared with members of the public; please be respectful to all patrons of these locations.

Harassment includes: harmful or prejudicial verbal or written comments related to gender, age, sexual orientation, race, religious choices, or disability; inappropriate use of nudity and/or sexual images in public spaces (such as your ~ pages); deliberate intimidation, stalking, or following; harassing recording; sustained disruption of the work of others; and unwelcome sexual attention.

There are technological behaviors that can also lead to a ban.

Please, in general refrain from:

This is not an exhaustive list, but are things communities such as ours have had to address in the past, and are provided here to give examples of unacceptable conduct and their likely repercussions.

Unacceptable behavior or technology use from any community member, including those entrusted with the maintenance of the server and the enforcement of the code of conduct, will not be tolerated.

Anyone asked to stop unacceptable behavior is expected to comply immediately. If a community member engages in unacceptable behavior, the careful.party administrators may take any action they deem appropriate, up to and including a temporary ban or permanent expulsion from careful.party (meaning your user account and keys would be revoked) without warning.

If you feel you have been falsely or unfairly accused of violating this code of conduct, use the section below to send a concise description of your grievance.

We expect all careful.party members to abide by this code of conduct while:

To reach an administrator:

Right now, Lykso is the only administrator.

Methods for contacting administrators from outside the tilde were also included in your welcome email. Please refer to that email if you need to contact an administrator and cannot do so, or would prefer not to do so, using internal channels.

This code of conduct is based on the tilde.town code of conduct, which is itself based on citizencodeofconduct.org under the terms of the Creative Commons Attribution-ShareAlike license.

OpenBSD 7.9 September 11, 2026 CONDUCT(7)